Greetings!
Feel free to call me Midnight or Wishes. I've been roleplaying for approximately a decade now. I prefer to roleplay in third person, usually past tense, but it depends. I think my favourite genres might be romance, angst and fandom, but love various genres and am willing to dabble in most of them.
Honestly, it is unlikely that I have any particularly useful tips for other roleplayers. Anything I could tell them they've probably heard somewhere before or will figure out themselves. What I will say, though - even just as a reminder for those who might need it -, is that you shouldn't compromise your comfort for someone else. Nor should you ignore your preferences (in fact, ideally, you'd make sure to go into detail about this in any request thread to avoid finding out in the middle of a roleplay that you're not compatible, but sometimes I suppose you can figure out you do/don't want something that others might not like only once you're actually trying it out, which I do get.). Still, if you don't think you're compatible with someone who wants to roleplay with you, it would be best to just tell them, as opposed to having a bad roleplaying experience. I know there are people out there who don't want to come off as rude/unfriendly for doing so, but it can save people's time and sometimes it's for the best.
I found this website simply by typing in adult roleplay sites and looking through the results until I was linked here from XenForo.